Swinging!

[Husbandisacuck]

I love swinging. I love having other men inside of me. And there has even been times when my husband has gotten some, too. And I like seeing him have fun as much as he likes seeing me have fun.

If you were in a serious relationship with someone, and they asked you to go to a swing club or sex party with them . . . Would you go? If so, why? If you wouldn't do it, why not?

[yumyum]

Honestly? For me, I won't go for that. Why would I? I'd rather break up with my guy if he tried to invite me to a place like that. I'll fuck with someone and he'll fuck with someone too? Hell no. I still have dignity.

[Husbandisacuck]

What does having sex with someone you're not in a relationship with have to do with your dignity?

[BigDaddy69]

Maybe it is really not her cup of tea and she's really into monogamy? Husbandisacuck

[imhornyimhorny]

Honestly? For me, I won't go for that. Why would I? I'd rather break up with my guy if he tried to invite me to a place like that. I'll fuck with someone and he'll fuck with someone too? Hell no. I still have dignity.

I do agree with yumyum . How can you do that if you are with your guy? Kinda weird. It just feel awkward. Just my opinion tho

[Cupcakesi]

I heard that once you swing and both of you are in a serious relationship it might put a strain on your relationship. Because one might secretly meet the other person for more action.

[PussySlay]

Before joining that action, they should make sure and make an agreement that it's only a casual sex. No more than that

[Cupcakesi]

Have you been in the same situation before?

[Husbandisacuck]

I heard that once you swing and both of you are in a serious relationship it might put a strain on your relationship. Because one might secretly meet the other person for more action.

Swinging is recreational sex. It's nothing like polyamory. Swinging is something that couples do together. And there are many different ways to swing. Sure, there are those single men or single women who swing as well, but if one person in the couple swings with a single male or female, this has already been talked about between the couple before any swinging began.

Swingers are like most anyone else. They just like different types or recreational activities. Most all swingers have an open attitude about sex. And they communicate, a lot. Communication and honesty is paramount in swinging. Because swinger couples have an open attitude about sex, there would be no reason for either partner to sneak and get sex with someone else. Especially when most swingers see sex like any other type of recreational activity.

I will admit that swinging may not improve a failing relationship, but many strong relationships have become stronger because of swinging. And many swinger find that swinging actually helps their libidos.

You have to consider what happens at swing clubs. If you were to go to a swing club for the first time, you would see everyday people socializing. You'd see people playing pool, or sitting at the bar talking. In our swing club there is also fine dining. Outside the back of the club you see people playing corn hole, or singing karaoke. Of course some women may be topless, but how is that sexual?

Many swingers go to swing clubs to hang out and converse with like minded people. Some go to clubs to meet new people and create friendships. Sex isn't the only thing that happens at swing clubs. Then you have to consider that there are many types of swinging.

Soft swing/swingers is a couple that enjoys sexual pleasure with others that includes anything up to but not including intercourse. Full swap swinging is a sexual encounter among two couples in which both couples have sex with the other couples, usually the husbands switch wives during sexual intercourse. Then you have those who just like to watch other people have sex. And you have those people who like to be watched when they're having sex.

More often than not, the "play" area is away from the social area. Many people go to swing clubs and never have sex, or never have sex with others. Many just like being around like minded people. Why do people go to sports bars? To watch sports and be around like minded people. Swing clubs are no different. I'm not saying that swingers don't have sex. Of course they do. They're human. Yet, they just don't hold on to social or religious beliefs that go against what they personally believe.

As far as cheating, what reason would anyone have to cheat if they have the go ahead to have sex with others, with their partner's approval? This is an advantage of swinging. Trust is also a big one. But, when you can have sex with others, with your partner's approval, then cheating is nearly impossible. I will admit that some swinger people do cheat, but they are not the norm, within the community.

Not all swingers are alike. Many will only have sex with others if both couples are in the same room. Others will allow their spouse to have sex with someone in another room while they have sex with someone in another room. Other swingers just like watching live porn. And as I've said, some never have sex and just socialize.

So not to just go on and on, I wanted to tell you what kind of people are swingers . . . doctors, lawyers, school teachers, police officers, bank tellers, construction workers, hairdressers, scientists, bartenders, computer programmers. Swingers come from all walks of life. Your neighbors might even be swingers, and you'd never know.

Maybe this will clear up some misunderstandings about swingers and swing clubs.

[PussySlay]

Takes for clearing things up. At least none of us thought that it is a club where people who enjoy listening and dancing to swing music. lol

[uninvoked]

I would feel really bad for that person if that's the first thing that popped on his or her head PussySlay

[BabeLady]

I would go for it just for the experience. But first thing first I should look for a partner, I'm currently single at the moment. I feel like thing is only for couples.

[Husbandisacuck]

Actually single women are encouraged to attend. Many couples, and other single females and single males, hope to meet single females. You do not need a partner to attend a swing club.

[PussySlay]

Single women are encouraged to attend? I'm interested! Husbandisacuck

[Cupcakeri]

Well, I am open for swinging but it's gonna be my partner's last. lol

[LoveShove]

You can just go to the swingers club and look for your potential partner

[Cupcakeri]

Yeah, that's a possibility and I can just leave my guy there lol

[halfSlut23]

I want to experience it but I'm afraid that what if one of them accidentally loaded me. I wouldn't even know who I'm going to run to.

[HoneyHoney72]

Just by thinking it makes me feel terrible. I can't take it if a lot of guys fucked me in one night. I'm shocked that you are really enjoying what you're doing. I hope you won' get any disease or something.

[Husbandisacuck]

Just by thinking it makes me feel terrible. I can't take it if a lot of guys fucked me in one night. I'm shocked that you are really enjoying what you're doing. I hope you won' get any disease or something.

Why are you shocked that I am really enjoying the attention of other men?
Why are you shocked that I am really enjoying making other people happy?

Sex is the one thing that involves all of our senses and all five love languages. Sex is also the one thing that makes us feel most connected to others. Having sex with multiple men, or getting gang banged, is an amazing experience. Before meeting my husband, I was a serial monogamist. Yet, since meeting my husband, I have learned that a lot of men actually enjoy having sex with women, while other men are having sex with her. When multiple men want to have sex with you, it affirms your desirability. It tells you that you are what men want. And it also gives you a chance to be what these men need you to be, and at the same time for them to be what you need them to be . . . men.

When a woman has sex with a man, it boosts his ego and his sexual confidence. And when a man is willing to have sex with a woman, it tells her that she is attractive, desirable, and wanted. There are many benefits to having sex. And I like them all. I have experienced 6 man gang bangs, 8 man gang bangs, 25 man gang bangs. And they've all been so much fun. I have also enjoyed one on one sessions with many men. I have played with couples, too. And it's all been fun. Life should be fun. And to me, sex is very fun.

Our anniversary is this Friday, and we have invited over 50 men to join us at our hotel suite. I know, from experience, that maybe only 20 will show. But I can hope.

[Husbandisacuck]

HoneyHoney72; It is estimated that there are over 20 million swingers in the U.S. alone. Although, I have a feeling that most swinger women aren't as active as I am.

[HoneyHoney72]

What is the usual ratio between men and women whenever you're at a swingers club?

[Husbandisacuck]

Since most swinger clubs are mostly couples, the numbers are close. Yet you will see a few single men and a few single women. So, the ratio is about 50/50 most of the time, with a few single men and women here and there.

[AglowBeautiful]

How can I have such sex drive like yours? Tell me your secrets.

[Husbandisacuck]

I grew up a preacher's kid. Always under a microscope. I got interested in sex after finding my older brother's Hustler magazines when I was in junior high. I found out, quickly, that men liked being massaged. They liked my sexual whiles. I learned early that I could turn men on. And then my hormones kicked in. I'd get so horny that I would use my hair brush to get myself off.

I was raped when I was thirteen. The thing was that I really liked it. I didn't like that I was being forced, at first, but I started liking it. I liked how he handled me. And I liked all the testosterone. He really knew how to turn me on. He pulled my hair. He put both of his hands behind my head when he put his cock in my mouth, and commanded, "Suck it! You know you want to!" (And he was right.) And when he told me to lay down and spread my legs for him, I couldn't help but smile. I wanted him in me. I wanted to feel him inside of me.

When he entered me, I gasped. And without thinking about it, I dug my nails into his back and screamed out, "Oh my God, Yes! Thank You!" At that point, actually sooner, it was no longer a rape, but, rather, a consensual play date. After that day, I was willing to have sex with anyone that wanted me. And, lo and behold, I became very popular. Throughout junior and senior high, I didn't really date, but I had a lot of boy friends. I think the fact that the boy who raped me got me off three times made me realize that this was something I wanted as often as physically possible.

My first husband cheated on me, but later on told me he'd always wanted an open marriage. He eventually got into drugs and left me for his girlfriend who was also a hooker. My second husband loved his games and his D&D. And sex never crossed his mind very much. He passed away. He ended up having a 5 pound tumor in his head. After the death of my second husband, and before meeting my current husband, I dated several guys, and had sex with each of them,but never more than one at a time. Then my current husband and I met. And soon after he'd convinced me to allow myself to be gang banged.

I had no idea that men enjoyed fucking a woman after other men have fucked her and cum in her. I had 6 men attend my first gang bang. And what an experience that was. I felt so wanted and needed and loved. All these men wanted me. And I loved it. I loved that they were so manly. They pulled out their cocks, and they put their cocks in me and in my mouth and in my ass. I was in sexual bliss at this time. I had never known that type of pleasure. But I was loving it then.

After my first gang bang, my husband, then boyfriend, asked me what I thought. And I told him that I wanted to do it again. And it happened again, two days later. This time there was the original 6 and 3 more. This time two of the men stayed, for about 5 hours, after the other men had already left. Although I had already been introduced to double penetration during my first gang bang, feeling just two men, lying so close to you, and you can feel both of them inside of you. That is a delight to the senses.

We ended up having men to my house every Friday and Saturday night. And every single one of the men I got fucked by had a bigger cock than my husband's. They took the initiative. They were masculine. They treated me like a woman should be treated, sexually. And I liked that, a lot! By the time me and my husband got married, he'd already watched me have sex with a couple hundred men. We married with the agreement that I would continue to have sex with other men. I totally agreed to this because I had no intension of stopping.

My husband had introduced me to a new way of life. And I wasn't going to change it. I was getting a lot of sex, from a lot of really sexy men, and I couldn't get enough. Eventually we slowed down and had men live with us. This was a lot more personal and convenient. We rented out two rooms to men who became my lovers. Well, that was the original reason we rented the rooms out to men. And I had sex with both of the men who rented from us, every day, for the next two years.

After both men had moved out, I really began missing everyday sex, with more than just one man. And my husband had repeatedly told me that he wanted to see me with other men again. That's when we put the bed n the back of our Suburban. And I started dressing sexy again. I'm very flirty. And I will hug men all day. It is because I am so forward, I think, is why men are so attracted to me. And I also think that they like the fact that if they tell me they want to have sex with me, they can.

I guess my secret is always being open, honest and very available. Having a husband that wants me to have sex with other men helps. If you want to strengthen your libido, to want sex more often, you have to engage your libido, give in to your desires, let your fantasies become reality. See sex for what it is . . .SEX! Sex should never just be a want. You should see it as a need, like air. And if it is just sex, you have no intension of dating this person, you just want to have sex with them, then it really doesn't matter who they are. They are just a sexual play toy.

Other than the person you are committed to, you don't love these others. You just have sex with them. To me and my husband, me having sex with other men is what makes both of us happiest. I get to have sex with some incredible lovers, and my husband gets to watch and take pictures of it happening. I love being my husband's porn. I think the reason I want and love sex so much is because I have the freedom to do so, and I have a very supportive partner. All of our family and friends know we are in the lifestyle. So, I think that being out, and being okay with it, helps a lot, too.

[BeautifulCupful]

So is there a specific dick out there that you keep on thinking? Like do you have a favorite that you crave from time to time or they are all equal for you?

[Husbandisacuck]

No. They are not all equal. And yes, there is one that I do crave over all the rest. His name is Anthony. He lived with us for about a year. He has it all. A great body. Looks. Musical talent. Martial arts black belts.And, yes, he is hung and a very, very good lover. I orgasm simply from his touch. I don't get to see him as often as I would like, but, when we get together, it's magical.

[TeaBroadway]

What's your favorite kind of dick while swinging?

[BearMsAlive]

I would be surprised if you told us that it is a limp one lol Husbandisacuck

[TeaBroadway]

Husbandisacuck I like the way you answered it. Lol

[TeaBroadway]

BearMsAlive who wants a limp one anyway?

[HugKenji]

I am just wondering, with all the sex you are getting lately from different guys, didn't you catch any disease? Or are you getting checked regularly?

[Husbandisacuck]

I am tested often.

[HugKenji]

That's good to hear. How about pregnancy scares? Have you had them before?

[Husbandisacuck]

I can't get pregnant.

[morelove]

How often do you and partner swing? And with whom?