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A friend of mine is seeing someone and they only had two dates. This third date came up today, says he ended up breaking her heart. Why you'd ask? He says that he is no longer interested in making them 'official', he says that he's not really in love with her, it was only infatuation. He says that they can still be friends but he's not sure if she's okay with that.
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Just like that, he ended everything on the third date? Well, at least they'll have the chance to meet other people but I feel bad for the brokenhearted girl. She cannot accept that they're better off as friends now. -
Who would be okay after she got her heart broken? I think that the guy deserves a slap in order to make him feel a part of the hurt that the girl is feeling. Well, one slap wouldn't suffice so maybe it should be more than one.Comment
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One solid slap will be fine. He cannot take what he has said and done, it is all over now. They should part ways and should never be friends again. -
Can I just give him that one solid slap? 'Coz I think a part of me was hurt as well, oh yeah, I remember, the same thing had happened to me way way back. I will never forget that as well.
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I suggest that your friend should just forget about the guy so that she can start moving on already. Also, she should realize that losing the guy is actually not a loss for her. At least, she saved herself from more heartbreak right?Comment
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Your friend should have been more careful when she's around the guy. She should have noticed that he's not really interested in her in the way that she's interested in him. But she can't do anything about that except accepting that she and the guy don't have a future anymore.Comment
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Dates should remain to be dates. You could even be dumped on your first date so it should not be a big deal. There are lots of fish in the ocean. Certainly, you could find better fish out there.Comment
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During those first dates, it is normal to have trials and errors (successful dates or not) at least, during those first dates you get to see what type of person you are dealing with already. It's either you picked the right one or you dodged a bullet. -
It's better to dodge a bullet too early. I think that those dates are just for fun, for him, but I feel bad for her that she took it seriously and was hoping for them to become a serious thing. That guy is still an ass, I cannot forgive him for hurting her like that.
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It is good that he told you that it is better to stop while it was just starting. At least, there were less time and less effort that were wasted.Comment
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Wow, he could have just said in the first place that he doesn't have any intention of being in a relationship with her. In tat way, the girl shouldn't have hoped that they can be more than friends.Comment
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Well, the third date is considered to be early when he changed his mind. It's okay that they ended things that way, it's not like they're already together and suddenly he breaks up with her the next day, right? -
Sometimes, we should not assume for anything. Assuming makes us vulnerable to heartbreaks.
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What made him change his mind? There could be some reasons why he changed his mind. She should have asked him the reasons.Comment
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Did they have sex already? If yes, then I think that's the only thing that the guy is after. Well, most guys are like that. They treat the girls as if they are toys wherein they can play with whenever they like and can drop and dispose as well.Comment
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Sadly, yes, some guys are only in it for sex and nothing more. Once they get what they want, they're ready to leave you anytime. I've done it before and I feel guilty right now telling the truth. -
hitthesack Do usually do that before? Have you already stopped that?
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Well, that was too quick to just end. Sometimes, there are things which are like that. Sometimes, we have to accept it.Comment
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Everything must come to an end and there's nothing we could do but to keep moving forward. Maybe it wasn't meant to be and after all, you just saved yourself from more further heartbreaks. -
I couldn't agree more badbadboys. People will get tired of you and we must have to deal with it that we can no longer excite them any longer that's why they're going to look for another person that would spark their interests once again.
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There is no other good way but to become friends. If anyone of them refused to be friends, then they would just make their lives miserable.Comment
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