Meeting the parents

[virgingirl]

Someone I know has been on a date with someone recently and she told me that something totally unexpected happened. As she narrated, after they ate at a restaurant, she thought that he would just drive her home but then to her surprise, the guy took her to his house to meet his parents. She was so surprised because that was only their first date and the guy didn't mention that he has a plan like that. She said that she was so embarrassed that time and it was so awkward. What can you say about this? Is it okay to meet the parents during the first date?

[truelove]

It's definitely not okay for me. Because I am uninformed about it, I didn't prepare myself. If I was informed, of course, I would wear something nice and would try to look more attractive.

[BigDaddy69]

So, do you consider that meeting his parents is a nice think to do on a first date? How are you so sure about him that you've already met his parents in such short notice?

[jerda201]

truelove Well, he should've at least told you about that before he even introduced you to his parents. Is he really sure about you as well? I think that your date with him has come way too fast.

[holleroutyo]

I think meeting someone's parents is a serious thing, so if he introduces me to his parents then I guess we're having a serious thing already. I can consider my first date to be like this, at least his parents are aware that he's already dating me, that I am his pretty girlfriend, lol.

[VanVan01]

It's so sweet when a guy introduces you to his parents. Yes, it means he wants you to become a part of his life already and what else can I say? He sees you already in his future. Ahh, so sweet!

[BugAlive]

A man rarely takes you to his home and lets you meet his parents and if that ever happens then it's official. You're part of their family and you should be serious about him as well.

[SmgSpuffy]

What? You just had your first date and suddenly you had become his pretty girlfriend already? That was too soon.

[Yuki23]

Oh no, that's happening way too fast! Maybe next date would conside having a fancy date with his parents as well. I'd feel like I need to runaway because I'm not yet ready to face his parents like that!

[BabyUni]

Are you saying that you're not planning to date him seriously? Because it looks like he's serious already and wants to make it official, which is why he considered introducing you to his parents already.

[CupcakeTasty]

BabyUni, but it's a little to early for him to do that don't you think? And it's rude of him not to tell her about his whole plan, which is introducing her to his parents on the first date.

[longneck]

Meet the parents on the first date? Who in the right mind would do something like that? I can't think of any reason why the guy did that but it's not okay for me.

[AnnieP]

A guy who will do that is someone who is controlling and manipulative. I do think that he did it on purpose in order for him to make the girl connected to his family as early as their first date. I won't like it if my date pulled a stunt like that to me.

[Tastyblic]

It is not okay for me, too. What was he thinking? Was he nuts or something?

[AnneCubix]

I think the guy just wants to impress the girl through that action. And I think he wants to tell her that she is so worthy up to the point that he already introduced her to his parents.

[Lucricia17]

You're right about that but I also think the reason that he wants her to feel worthy is so that she'll trust him and in that way, she'll agree to have sex with him later on.

[Danica505]

AnneCubix but it's all happening way too fast, don't you think? I won't let a man introduce me to his parents during our first date, I barely even know him that well, so what could have been more if I'm facing both of his parents.

[yumyum]

Why would he introduce a girl whom he had just had a first date? It is unnecessary at all.

[AliveLivery]

What a nice move! If I were in the position of the girl, I will be touched by that sweet action. Letting me meet his parents symbolizes that he's open and willing to take our relationship in a higher level.

[badbadboys]

And I guess that he's already sure of you. He's been planning it the whole time, letting you meet his parents means you two are official already.

[bemine]

AliveLivery it is really touching but don't you think that's it a little too early for that? I mean they could've at least waited for the 5th dates at the very least.

[TeaBroadway]

Based on the story, I do think that the guy would want to pressure the girl into making her stay connected with him. Because meeting the parents is such an honorable thing and there is a tendency that the parents will ask the girl to meet with them again and the girl can't do anything but to agree. In that way, the girl might be trapped with that guy.

[XperiencedVirgin]

It's pressuring, don't you think? I wouldn't want to be put into that exact same situation as her friend but luckily, I haven't been and I hope I never will. It's sad that she wasn't informed about the formal meeting with his parents, it just happens oh so suddenly.

[StrongAsZeus]

Is he in his right mind to be doing that? I mean, his parents should be aware of that that he barely even know her so, why would they agree in meeting his so-called 'girlfriend'?

[Cupcakeri]

No! That should not be done at all. Hello, if I were the girl, why would I go with him to meet his parents? He does not even know if I would accept to have a second date with him.

[BiancaG]

He should've at least done that if you two are already together, right? That's really pressuring to your part and I don't think you're ready to be his girlfriend yet.

[SimplyAlisha]

So, if a guy did that to you. Would you allow to have a second date with him?

[smoker]

I won't agree to meet his parents. Duh! Why will I? Am I his girlfriend already? There is no reason to meet them. I would just be stressed out.

[hitthesack]

You should make a run for it while you still can, he must be obsessed with you already and that's a red flag already!

[TastyLove]

I also would not want to meet his parents. It looks like we are already lovers which we are not.

[bubblebutt6969]

If he did it, then I would shake their hands and be pretty warm around them. I would smile like crazy. I would be comfortable with them and before I leave them, I would ask them if they would like me to be their son's girlfriend. He shocked me, so I would also shock him.

[honesty101]

I guess that they'd be surprised too. You seem to be a confident woman to be asking them politely to be his girlfriend. I think your 'boyfriend' would be smiling like crazy knowing that you really want to be his girlfriend.

[playagame]

Wait! Why did you join him to their place? I guess that you went with him as you were expected to be laid down. Little did you know that he had another plan and that left you off guarded to your dismay and horror.

[AirParis]

MEETING THE PARENTS, in such short notice. Wow, that's extremely awkward and I couldn't imagine myself being stuck in that situation.

[Shane77]

It was a trap! I thought that he's planning to fuck her in his room but SURPRISE! As they reach the living room, his parents are on the couch waiting for you two.