What we doesn't know can't hurt us, right? Well, I met a guy in an online game and we both got interested with each other. Instantly, we exchanged numbers and we got to know each other more so eventually, we dated. However, I guess I didn't become curious enough about him. Here's the thing, it is just now that I knew that my boyfriend is a son of a really rich family. Their family is into the construction industry so they are certainly wealthy. And my problem is this, I don't know what to do with that information. Because I think my boyfriend hid that from me for a reason. What should I do?
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I bet you will treat him differently now. But what I suggest you to do is to ask him all about that and ask why he kept it from you.
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Treat differently just because she had known that her boyfriend was rich?
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How can she treat him differently as if he just cheated on her? He did not lie to her as well, I just think that it's not necessary for her to know that he is the son of a really rich family. So what? Even if they're in a relationship, it's not necessary to know every little thing about your partner. Wait for them to tell you what's going on with them.
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If that is the case then pretend that you had not known the information. You felt that it was hidden to you so he did not want you to know that thing. Just go on with your relationship with him. In due time, he might reveal it to you.
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He may be the son of the rich family and so what? Maybe, he did not tell you that because he was ashamed that he would not inherent any of those wealth from his parents.
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Possibly yes, but that's okay at least he is aware that money does not grow on trees. What I mean to say that his parents might told him that he must work independently so he'll get to know how it feels to be earning. Or perhaps he is raised in a humble but hard-working family and he's not really discussing their wealth to anyone because it seems to be like humble-bragging to some people, right?
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Do you mean inherit and not inherent? Anyway, that could be a reason why he skipped to tell that information. After all, inheritance is not automatic.
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fucklove, are you sure that your pieces of information are correct? What I can suggest to you is to just hold on to those and wait for him to tell it to you. I'm sure he is not keeping it as a secret, instead, he just doesn't have it in mind to discuss those things to you. Then again, he will tell it to you in no time, just be patient with him.
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You are right, sometimes couples do not discuss most things but it does not mean that they are keeping it as a secret. Well, sometimes we do need to keep a little something to ourselves right? And sooner or later they might find time to discuss that properly, she doesn't need to be bothered by that at all.
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There could be other things that he had hidden from you and you might be surprised when you learn all those things. So, would you be ready to accept all those other things that were hidden from you?
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Okay, so maybe her boyfriend does not discuss many things to her but I know for sure that she will accept it anyway. I mean, why not? It's never too late for her to know those things that he has been hiding from her. He will soon tell her everything that she needs to know, either way, they will continue with their relationship whatever happens.
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Girl, that hidden information was so great to hear than have to hear something opposite of it. What if you had known your boyfriend to be rich but later on you learned that he was only faking his wealth? I am sure that you would gonna dump him even before he could have a chance to explain himself.
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If he's faking his wealth then he deserves to be dumped, he's a liar and no one likes dating a liar. It's not that she is sticking her nose into their wealth but the fact that he's hiding the truth to his partner when she does not deserves being lied to.
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LOL. Why could some girls not dumped their boyfriends who turned out to be rich while they would easily dumped their boyfriends who turned out to be fakes when those two types of boyfriends are both liars?
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So what is he is the son of a rich family? Do they belong to the top 25 richest family in the country? If no, then stop your illusions that they are that rich. And if they are really that rich, then what is the issue with you? Are you affected that they are that rich?
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If he's really wealthy, I guess you can make the most out of that scenario. Make him buy you some luxurious stuff but don't be abusive regarding that. Take it slow. One item at a time will do. Lol!
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What's the big deal if he's rich? Aren't you allowed to be with someone rich? Lol! Anyway, I believe that you shouldn't do anything. Wait until he tells you the truth because if you confront him about that, he might even think that you're a stalker.
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You shouldn't worry about it because I think he's just protecting you. Maybe he doesn't want you to know that he's rich because he doesn't want you to get involved in the crazy life of rich people.
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You're right, even the rich people get involved with crazy things, could be of family or business situations but who knows? It's best if they'd keep it for themselves as a family, they have each other anyway. She's just a girlfriend and they aren't married yet so she does NOT have the right to meddle in their situation.
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You have a small problem darling and you are making a big deal out of it. If he's rich, then good for you. That only means that he has the ability to provide your needs and wants. Be thankful about it.
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