Really need sum advice! so I've been dating for a few years now and between hookups and more serious things, there's one thing I can't make happen no matter how hard I try. I really, really wanna try anal. I can't get any of the girls I see to want to try! They all think it's gross or they are afraid. Sometimes they let me rub my finger around their hole but that's it. And that's not anal! Are there like specific groups I can join where I can find women who are super down for anal? I guess I could specifically seek out someone for just that but it would be kinda nice if someone that I'm already seeing would be a little more adventurous! I don't see what the big deal is. I've always wanted to try. Now it's just starting to bug me!
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I can't completely speak to a women's perspective (gay), but coming from someone who is very into anal (haha), I can say that if you're new to it, it does take some practice. You won't be pounding anyone there immediately. Especially if you decide to do it with someone who has never done it before. That muscle has to be practiced and worked so it can be ready to recieve something as big as a dick. Otherwise there could be tearing or bruising! You may just want to go find someone more practiced at it. That way they can give you some tips and they'll be well prepared.
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Like the other two said, anal takes some work. I would say get it out of your system first and make sure it's something you're super into. Find a gal who has done it before and give it a try. DO NOT DO ANAL WITH A NEWBIE. I can't stress that enough. If you decide that it's a position for you, make it clear with your hookups and try to find someone who wants to explore that or already does. It really does take baby steps and there are lots of tools you can use, like different sized plugs, to help stretch out the muscle. Hope that helps!
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