My lady only seems to like missionary, what gives?

[travisismyname]

So my current lady, we have great sex. Cant compalin there. Except we only do it one way. Missionary. I want to try different ways but she never seems to want to. I try to make suggestions but she brushes them off. She says she only likes missionary. Is this a normal thing? I don't have any preference for other positions....i just want to try some new things! We have really great sex so I kno it would still be awesome in other positions. How can I convince her that it would be fun?

[miss_montgomery]

Tread carefully here! There could likely be a reason that she is hesitant to experiment. How close is your relationship? Maybe she is still feeling a bit shy? Is she younger? When I was younger, I was hesitant to try new positions. I also was shy and worried that I wouldn't be very good. Silly looking back! But when you're younger and more newly sexually active it can be intimadating.

[tricky_trixie]

i agree with miss montgomery! she could have a good reason for being apprehensive. if u feel close enough to her u could try asking her about it? likely she is wanting to experiment but maybe afraid? also she could be feeling now like she is letting you down and doesn't want to upset you more. brains are weird things! definitely be careful because you don't want her to feel pressured or bad.

[travisismyname]

Well we've only been dating a few months but i feel like we've got a good thing going. So you think I should just make her feel safe and comfortable? I don't want her to feel pressured but also I want to have some more fun!

[marcia_marcia_marcia]

I used to be like this. I only ever wanted to do missionary because I got to be more passive. It was like a safety blanket! The first position I experimented was me being on top. You should try suggesting that as a baby step. I was super nervous at first but then I started to love it. Mostly because when I'm on top I am in more control which is an even safer feeling. I have the power! Haha.

[travisismyname]

Cowboy style, I like it!

[fluffyandsoft45]

Sometimes it takes time! Just be patient. And deffo do NOT pressure her. That's a gross feeling and you'll just be responsible for making her resent you.

[PussySlay]

Yeah, try to talk to her about it. You can also try and watch a porno with her so that she can have an idea that its good to try other positions

[uninvoked]

Maybe she's scared or she's conscious about her body. Next time you try to open it up to her reassure her,tell her she's beautiful and that you want her to feel amazing and you want to do it for the both of you. Just be patient