I feel like I need to be honest...

[backdoorlover46]

I've been seeing a guy (not from this site) except I've been lying about my feelings for him. He seriously, seriously likes me and I will never tell him that I do not feel the same. Why? Because I'm selfish. Because I like him taking care of me. Because his feelings for me make it worth my indifference. He is talking about moving in together and I am going along with it. I like his apartment thats why. Maybe I'm selfish but I don't care. For the first time I finally have someone taking care of me.

[mamacita]

Damnnnnnnnn. That's cold. Ice fucking cold. Poor guy.

[ablasta]

Stone cold song by Demi Lovato. That might help her. Lol

[sassy_lassy]

Cold but also that makes sense. I get that, wanting someone to take care of you. And let's be real: half the sugar baby relationships - probably way more than half actually - are similar situations. She's taking care of herself, who cares.

[leonbronsomGM]

aren't we all grown??? didn't women fight like hell to seen as 50/50??? how about taking care of yourself I admire a strong woman that can make stuff happen herself and doesn't need a man to take care her that's just lazy

[mamacita]

Well what about this guy and his feelings?

[leonbronsomGM]

why??? cuz I call it like I see it??? don't be mad about that

[sassy_lassy]

He's probably just elated that he has someone hot in his life that he gets to take care of. Duh

[leonbronsomGM]

I can tell your a shallow person and you'll be a lonely person with attitude looks only go so far

[mamacita]

Nah, it's still fucked up.

[leonbronsomGM]

keep it real now

[fallenangel]

I was in a relationship like that for a few years for the exact same reasons. I was cared for and comfortable enough. He didn't need to know that I didn't like him that way. But also he was kind of a fool to not even notice.

[monster_in_the_sheets]

I think I'd be kinda pissed if I found out a girl I thought cared about me didn't give a shit n was just using me for stuff

[Janbaby]

It would be much better that you tell him. Since its sounds like you're feeling guilty about your situation

[leonbronsomGM]

honesty goes a long way he might not end up having her at the end of the day and just might continue on knowing where he stands

[CuddlyPac]

I got the same feels. Ugh. I feel terrible about it.

[holleroutyo]

Damn, you are going to ruin him

[OhRain]

You ever heard the expression, "What goes around, comes around"? Yes/No, either way, you're about to be woken up by something fierce. Just a matter of time...

[inertia]

This is true and karma never miss a thing. It'll hit her so bad without any hint.

[leonbronsomGM]

you only get out of this world what you put in and she putting hate in it

[imhornyimhorny]

Maybe overtime you will be able to learn how to love him. I'm crossing my fingers.

[morelove]

There are some instances a lady would want to feel like someone is taking care of her. Maybe sooner it would progress into something more, like her learning to love the guy.

[Lookingforlovin]

It might end up to such or sooner the guy would realize she's just a user. Worse to worse situations.

[LoveShove]

I hope that the guy would come to his senses and dump you already. You don't deserve to the love and attention that he is giving you

[Kinkytime]

I hope so too but love could be blinding sometimes. He definitely doesn't deserve this shit.

[leonbronsomGM]

that girl doesn't have any love in her heart and that's got to be a terrible feeling

[LoveShove]

It feels like she doesn't even care for the guy already the way that she posted this