I complimented my coworkers ring on her right hand and it turns out that it was her engagement ring from her now ex-fiance when they broke up. Yes, she decided to keep it, she doesn't feel bad since her ex was the one who cheated anyway. What can you say?
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She still loves him but she does not deserve to be with a guy like him. Look where they're both are now, she's single and it's all because of him. Months after their wedding and he decided to go off with some chick? That's just sick!
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am I the only one that thinks about pawning it to the shop? Sorry, if I were her, I'd be devastated to know that the ring was from a fiance who cheated on me. So, it's best for me to pawn it to the shop and I'd keep the money back in my bank account, it's as if there's no engagement and no fiance that ever existed in my life, lol!
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It's clear that she still loves her ex. Because if not, she should have thrown away anything that can remind her of him.
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Maybe the ring is too precious and too expensive to throw away. Lol! But kidding aside, I do think that she hasn't moved on from him yet. Maybe despite the cheating that he did, she still has a place in her heart for him.
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How long have they broken up? Maybe your coworker is still hoping that he'll come running back to her and they can continue with the wedding. I feel sad that she got cheated on though.
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Then, she was not able to move on. I pity her that she failed to move on. She should have thrown it away as there is no sense for her to wear that ring. The man would not come back anymore.
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She still loves him. I suggest that she should forget the cheating that happened and just proceed with the wedding. I bet her fiance will change and he will not cheat on her again.
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But what if her ex-boyfriend has another girl with him already. It looks like they broke up like ages ago, and she just kept the ring with her.
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How is that possible when her ex-boyfriend is already with another woman? The man could have completely moved on while she remains stuck on her belief that they would still be together.
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Poor girl. Her life probably turned upside down when she knew about the cheating. But I suggest that in order for her to move forward, she should consider letting go of the things that her ex fiance gave to her. Moving on would be much easier that way.
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Did the guy try to win her back? If not, then it's really over between the two of them. So I suggest that your coworker should just sell the ring or give it back to her ex fiance.
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She obviously does not want to give it back, she kept it just for good time's sake. Some time after, her ring won't be seen in her finger anymore.
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I don't think that the girl will accept the guy back after what he did. Being a victim of cheating can really make you have worst feelings. So it's best if she just throw away the ring.
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Well, looks like someone is still hoping for a come back in the relationship. Tell your coworker that the hurt from what happened will not go away unless she helps herself through letting go of things that need to be gone (like that engagement ring!).
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What I can say is that the ring might be too beautiful to just sell it to the pawnshop, she just kept it with no other meaning to it. She could've moved on already from her ex-fiance and now, keeping the ring is her own decision. Let's not judge her about that.
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CupcakeTasty you're right, sis. That beautiful engagement ring is worth keeping since it's her choice anyway and things will never be the same as her ex-fiance has chosen to leave her for good already.
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