So about BDSM

[KellyEM]

My partner and I are thinking of trying this scene for a while now... so, is it really as amazing as it sounds? Will you guys give me a preview of what I should expect when I finally decided to give my go signal? I will be a "sub" and my partner will be a "dom".

[Airexadre]

If it is the first time that you both are doing it then it will not be amazing as you think. You need to be physically and mentally ready before doing things that you are not familiar with.

[1xz9]

I suggest that you read more about BDSM and be familiarize with it before attempting to do it.

[Lookingforlovin]

I think you should read this first before engaging in that kind of play.

[Amazeac]

I hate it when they mention Fifty Shades as the reason why people are trying bdsm

[ablasta]

Amazeac Maybe because the franchise is famous that is why it became a common reference when it comes to BDSM.

[J3nnyTalia]

I guess you better read more about BDSM before doing it.

[BearMsAlive]

Why would you automatically assume that they haven't researched about it?

[XperiencedVirgin]

Expect a new kind of fun that you have never experienced before.

[honesty101]

Yes, I guess that's the only thing to expect.

[BeautifulCupful]

I would suggest just do your research first before getting into it. And when it comes to your roles, maybe you should take turns first in order to know what's more comfortable for the both of you

[BabyUni]

This is actually a nice suggestion. That way, they can discover the role they want to do.

[Informerem]

Are you sure that the both of you are willing to try it and not because one of you wanted to? You have to make sure that the both of you are fully committed into doing it because you both want it

[CuddlyPac]

What makes you think that one of them might be forced into it?

[BuiltToLast]

I would suggest just do your research first before getting into it. And when it comes to your roles, maybe you should take turns first in order to know what's more comfortable for the both of you

I agree with what she said. Specifically about the roles that you would be playing. Just because you're a girl doesn't mean you have to be the sub automatically

[Mor2thisIknoe]

But I think she must start being the sub first.

[Yummykorn]

Mor2thisIknoe it would be better if we let KellyEM decide

[BabeLady]

Not really sure if the practitioners of it would consider it as a scene because you're making it sound that it is a trend or something

[Live2Hunt]

Lol! Thought so too.

[MoiraMcTagarrt]

Be careful, you two... this is a serious thing, it's not just a game.

[rockmybedpls]

I agree. Things could be dangerous here if you do not know what you are doing...

[jerda201]

I don't know anything about BDSM. I prefer normal sex... but if you do continue with this, I hope you have fun!

[AirFeline]

Do you have plans of trying to read about it?

[LoveShove]

Why not redo the BDSM scenes from the movie Fifty Shades of Grey, I bet it will be exciting for both of you.

[AglowBeautiful]

But if there is a chance that they would end up hurting themselves if they don't do it properly

[MasQue]

50 Shades is so old and highly romanticized... why not the try the ones featured in "Kink" a documentary about a BDSM website?