it takes me longer to cum when I am having sex than when i'm jacking myself off?

[sexyme1]

why? does anyone else have the same experience ?

[holleroutyo]

Well.. do you watch porn? a lot of that has something to do with unrealistic expectations. Just stop thinking if it takes longer and enjoy

[sexyme1]

yes actually,that's what everyone's saying here. Im trying to limit visual stimulation and just getting into it

[Janbaby]

does this happen every time? with all guys you've had sex with? maybe it's just bad sex because you know your body the most so it's logical you get off faster because you do what you like

[merrygoround]

cut off masturbating, i think you are getting off on porn and need visual stimulation.

[J3nnyTalia]

Maybe he's that bad when it comes to sex and doesn't hit the right spots

[yumyum]

i think you're overthinking it, just enjoy them both. i dont see a guy here counting how many strokes he makes before he cums

[yumyum]

i know it takes time, just give it a shot and take baby steps

[halfSlut23]

That made me think of a guy telling you to slow down so that he would last longer

[yumyum]

i get what you mean, you just gotta relax cause stress makes it harder to enjoy sex

[StrongAsZeus]

Two things I can think of the reason why. First, You're more stimulated whenever you're touching yourself. Or watching porn. Second, you're letting your mind overpower you when you're doing the deed. Either way, you have to be more into it. Don't imagine things. Don't Over think and don't let yourself be accustomed with watching porn and getting off with it.

[CupcakeComments]

I agree with StrongAsZeus

[CupcakeComments]

Maybe you have to try doing it with someone you love. Intimacy heightens a persons feelings making them enjoy the sex more and maybe you'll cum early too.

[Cupcakeri]

Well I think you should be stopping bad habits like watching a lot of unrealistic porn? Lol

[Live2Hunt]

Come here baby, imma let you cum faster than what you expect.

[fistingfatties]

Woah. Too much faith in yourself?

[sexyme1]

I highly doubt it

[bubblebutt6969]

That could either mean that he doesn't know what he is doing or both of you aren't talking to each other while doing it. Communication is important when it comes to sex in order to know what the other person wants

[sexyme1]

i do communicate with him, i've told this to him a couple of times

[OhRain]

It's not so much "are you communicating to him" but "how are you communicating with him". And in addition to that, is he actively listening? if he isn't, than you have a much bigger issue here.

[bubblebutt6969]

OhRain I guess that it depends on the person as well. But in my case I would make sure that he's listening to me with my instructions during sex

[imhornyimhorny]

Tell him where the right spots are located so that you can have that orgasm that you're looking for

[BigDaddy69]

Are you willing to tell me where your right spots are?

[HoneyConey]

Tell him where the right spots are located so that you can have that orgasm that you're looking for

Yeah, communication is the key when it comes to sex

[imhornyimhorny]

and, she's really probably masturbating so much

[sexyme1]

He still sucks

[imhornyimhorny]

LMAO! I'm so sorry for you but i cant help but laugh at the same time

[sexyme1]

I just felt the need to tell everyone that he sucks