Things are better left unsaid

[MovingOn02]

To be left hanging without any idea why someone have to leave is really heartbreaking. My fiance, or maybe ex-fiance, left me without knowing what his reason is. I met him in the capital while I was doing an international dating blog. We were alright, even being sweet to me the last time we met. I tried to talk to him, asking for reasons, but I received no answer. I tried to contact him with any means possible but still, I received zero response. They said things are better left unsaid. But I deserve an explanation! Please help me! How do I see him?

[J3nnyTalia]

aww man I'm sorry you got ghosted. have you tried talking to his friends? family? how bout his workplace?

[BeautifulCupful]

I think that it is just a waste of time if she tried talking to those people about him

[J3nnyTalia]

that's up to her.

[XperiencedVirgin]

I think this is a blessing in disguise, this guy is such a scum that he left without explanation or any parting words. You're better off without him and you deserve better

[Informerem]

Not sure that she would look at it that way. I feel that she's really into him

[XperiencedVirgin]

Yes, I know that she's really into him, but she has to accept the fact that it is over between the two of them

[uninvoked]

Sometimes it is much better if you don't know the reason behind their decision since it would make you feel more hurt once you find out

[bubblebutt6969]

So you're saying that he saved her from a much bigger hurt?

[uninvoked]

Might be. If you want to be optimistic then yeah. But I also thought that she also deserves to know why to make it easier for her to move on.

[holleroutyo]

Just accept the fact that sometimes there are things that are much better left unsaid

[Janbaby]

Have you been in the same situation before?

[yumyum]

I think it's for the best. good to know you found out what he was like before you guys got married

[AirFeline]

Maybe the reason why the other person does that is because you would get hurt more if you they tell you the real reason behind it

[ablasta]

You don't need to be with someone who ghosts a person. It is time for you to move on already and find a guy who's more deserving than him

[Aglowwo]

I exactly know what you feel. When I experienced this, I also tried to ignore the guy and let it go. I find it so exhausting to look for answers and get the wrong response.

[BugAlive]

Maybe he knew you would get hurt letting you know the reason behind this. I know he is reading your messages he just chooses to ignore it, let him be. You don't deserve this.

[sexyme1]

This is really heart breaking girl, be strong I know you'll get through to this.