Okay so I love my boyfriend but...

[mirabella67]

I know not a lot of people on this site have a steady boyfriend. I do! Hi *waves*. I've been with my guy for a few years now. I really love him. I truly do. But, well. I'm on this site for chats and stuff. It's a lot of fun and my bf doesn't know about it. But it's getting hard to keep everything to online chat or video. I want to have some in person fun. I've been with my bf for so long and he's the only guy I've ever been with. I guess i want to experiment? I dunno. Or mabye I'm fucking things up? It's not that I'm necessarly bored with him. But there could be so much more out there! So many more dicks! Maybe even some vaginas! Has anyone else ever had regrets about having a serious boyfriend at a young age?

[darling_bee]

Mirabella, you are not alone. I think pretty much everyone has felt something similar to what you are feeling. It is a total "grass is greener on the other side" situation. And also it can be hard to feel sexually satisfied when you've only been with one person. I don't mean that is always the case, because some couples are totally fulfilled with each other and no one else. But on the other hand it is totally normal to want to experience more. Have more partners. Have more sex. Best thing to do is talk to your bf. He would want to know where you are coming from and what you are feeling, I'm sure of it.

[mirabella67]

That makes sense. I know I should tell him but I'm kind of afraid. I feel like it would be the end of our relationship and at one point I thought I was going to marry this guy! I still feel sometimes like he's the one in that sense. He doesn't know I'm on this site but I feel like it's the same equivalent of his Pornhub account lol.

[strongashell]

Tell him how you feel! If you've been together as long as you say and feel like he's the one you could marry, then he totally (hopefully) feels the same and would want to know all of these things going on inside your head. If you keep them bottled up too long you may start to get angry and resent him.

[boston_princessbaby]

u r so young! u should be out there having fun and making mistakes and most importantly getting laid!

[Husbandisacuck]

Look at it this way, I'm married and I still have sex with other men. My husband knows and watches, but still, I am married and I still have sex with other men. Ask your BF what he thinks about swinging. Don't tell him you want to. Just find out what his thoughts are on people who do. If he is okay with it, maybe the two of you can swing together and both get sex with other people. I know me having sex with other men has enhanced my marriage.

[HoneyConey]

I think you should try what @Hubandisacuck is suggesting. Since she experienced when it comes to doing it with other guys besides her husband

[PieFlavor]

I feel how locked up you are, you should be going out there and explore. I hope your BF is also open for fun.