Sex And Relationships

[TroveLove]

There's a huge chance that this has been talked about here before, but here it goes. Do you guys believe in the saying that men often use relationships in order to have sex while ladies uses sex in order to be in a relationship. I would love to read your thoughts about this one.

[Lingtote]

I think that is more of a stereotype. But in my opinion that both genders have used sex in order to be in a relationship and vice versa.

[Kinkytime]

Agree! It actually depends on what type of person are you and what type of person your partner would be. Some people are really using the relationship for sex and vise versa.

[Lucricia17]

Did you try using sex to be in a relationship with any guy?

[Tastyblic]

I sorta believed that saying is true based on my own experience. Because I've been with guys who dumped me a few weeks after that we've slept together.

[BugAlive]

How many guys have actually done that move on you?

[hardandrough]

Are you talking about the guy using relationships in order to sleep with you or you used sex in order to be in a relationship with them?

[BabyUni]

my opinion that both genders have used sex in order to be in a relationship and vice versa.

She's right about this one, but I feel that it is quite rare that the guy uses sex in order to be in a relationship.

[fucklove]

BabyUni Will, you have a point, girls nowadays are wild in bed.

[Shane77]

fucklove Yeah, mostly boys are, because they are more aggressive than girls.

[BabyUni]

Not just that, women are competitive in everything. fucklove

[Annalyn]

I think of it as the opposite. Men are the one who usually initiates sex to girls and if they like what happens then they would pursue being in a relationship.

[Aglowwo]

How about you? Do you do the same thing that guys would often do or it is the opposite?

[merrygoround]

You might be talking about guys who are more into hookups since all he tries to do is to have sex with her.

[AirParis]

No, I don't believe it, It's emphasizing that ladies are just to good in using their bodies in order to have a relationship. I don't agree and I think it's the other way around.

[inertia]

Are you that kind of man that uses sex to be in a relationship?

[Yuki23]

Ladies may be good at using their bodies but It doesn't necessarily mean that they get their man because of their body.

[AirParis]

inertia Nope, but if I think that we would not be serious, I will just wan’t sex.

[playagame]

I don't agree with both. You really do not need sex to start the relationship or be in a relationship to have sex. Fuck buddies, one night stands are present for those kinds of things.

[VanVan01]

But what if they were in love because on how we initiated sex and used our body to cheat are a way into a relationship?

[uninvoked]

I think that she's pertaining to romantic relationships and not just physical ones like fuck buddies and one night stands.

[playagame]

One of my friends had a one night stand but later on he met the guy and he courted her, and now they become a couple. HoneyHoney72

[AlignerAlive]

I think women are most disciplined when it comes to sex and men use sex so girls will come after them. These are just my thoughts and it depends on whether who is more flirty within the two.

[KellyEM]

I bet you are attractive enough to the guy that will flirt with you. AlignerAlive

[AlignerAlive]

I don't want to brag but many of you told me that I am an attracted person. lol KellyEM

[KellyEM]

Have you ever had sex to someone who is not really your type? AlignerAlive

[yumyum]

I've actually used sex in order to be in a relationship before. Realized that it was a bad idea when the guy broke up with me a few weeks after we start having sex.

[jerda201]

He must be tired with you already and maybe had enough of you because of too much sex.

[Danica505]

Maybe he didn't enjoyed doing it with you that's why he dumps you.

[Yummykorn]

So I'm guessing you are not using the sex approach right now because of what had happened before.

[HoneySpyder]

I tried starting a relationship with my fuck buddy before and it did not really work out.

[morelove]

Did he tell you the reason why he didn't want to have a relationship with you?

[imhornyimhorny]

If I were a guy, I would make sure that you're going to be more than a fuck buddy.

[Vichie]

Maybe your timing was just off that's why he rejected your offer of a romantic relationship with him.