A bummer BF

[MoiraMcTagarrt]

You have a new boyfriend. At first, you thought that he was nice and all but weeks passed by and you realized that he is a bummer. What would you do next?

[StrongAsZeus]

How about a bummer GF? Well, it's just weeks, right? I can manage to handle that but if it were a month that she hasn't changed a bit, then I'd end things off with her.

[badbadboys]

If she's being a bummer purposely, dude, you should dump that chick already. She's just messing with you the whole time.

[SimplyAlisha]

I do not think that she would change that easily. If that is the way that she really is then you could not do anything. But, wait, would you tell her that she is a bummer?

[BabyBabu]

You have a new boyfriend. At first, you thought that he was nice and all but weeks passed by and you realized that he is a bummer. What would you do next?

A bummer bf deserves a bummer gf. I'm no bummer gf, so I'd end things there because I wouldn't want to tolerate and be with a guy like that.

[XtineA]

Are you referring to me? Just tell me if you are hitting me. I won't hold back with you. lol.
No, sometimes, I feel like I am a bummer or maybe I only think of that to myself. Well, I do not know. Sometimes, I feel like lazy but I do not know. I could not express myself here. lol.

[hitthesack]

Oh, she's showing her true colors huh? Two can play that game!
I'd show her how much of a bummer I can be and at the end, she'll be the one who's willing to leaving me for that LOL!

[Yummykorn]

It will turn out as a complicated relationship Lol you start new then suddenly you want to leave haha

[Mor2thisIknoe]

I did not know that there are so many crazy people on this forum. Well, I would also do what you would do. lol.

[CuddlyPac]

You two are fools if you start being a bum to each other, maybe that will work because you two get understand each other

[playagame]

If he is a total bummer then I would have to end the relationship before it extends more on a longer period of time. He's already annoying and I don't want to get stressed out to much

[Cupcakeri]

Some are annoying in a good way but if its too much then its better to leave in a relationship like that

[rockmybedpls]

For how long will you stay with him before you would dump him? So, if he is just a partial bummer then would you continue to stick with him?

[MoiraMcTagarrt]

A bummer man must be bombed lol I can withstand them either, I'll just leave them and find someone else

[Yuki23]

It depends on how annoying he is. If he's just trying to annoy me, then I think I can handle that. Unless he give me reasons for me to seriously dump him, I would. But a bummer bf? I don't mind dating him.

[ablasta]

Bummer enough to annoy you even when you sleep and relax haha how's that?

[Jaime12]

ablasta I think the best definition of a bummer GF or a bummer BF are those you see online that pull pranks on each other. Yep, they're perfect for each other.

[Divina009]

Well, we all have our own choices. It is up to you until when you would be able to keep up with him being a bummer.

[VickyMae55]

Be a bummer too LOL, If the two of you could understand each other then let him be, but if its too much then I better tell him to Shut Up or else I would do something that would shut him up

[newromance]

jerda201 I think she could let him eat her out so that he would shut up. Ooopppsss, what am I thinking?

[youngsterme]

LOL @this_one I think spoil her with something that he wants and that would shut him like what newromance says you let him eat you so his mouth would be busy

[merrygoround]

Hey VickyMae55 I think everybody is curious on what will you do to make him shut-up? I hope it's not something hostile or violent

[Kristen23]

Why are you dumping your bummer boyfriend? Don't you love your boyfriends? As for me, I would keep him because I love him. No matter what he does, I would stay beside him. They say that love is blind. Mine is not just blind; it is also deaf and mute.

[BuiltToLast]

Probably because you're irritated Kristen23 Eventually you will get sick and tired of dealing with a bummer guy

[LoveShove]

Yes better stay by his side and maybe he can change even if they say "you can't change a man" which is a cliche but we need to bring something to the table that challenges us on how to transform him

[BabeLady]

Are you hoping that by being with your boyfriend, he would change for you? How many women have done this and failed miserably? You can't change a man that easily. Worse, they would not change at all after all the patience and efforts that you did to them.

[BabyUni]

If you can't withstand him at least give him time maybe he would change it you just told him to stop what he is doing or better be minimal, Don't dump him right away soon he will realize that something is wrong with him and don't ignore what's hes doing we should communicate

[VanVan01]

But if he keeps on being a bummer then boom you should bomb his ass out of your life if your expectation that he will change fails

[Lilliah]

Wow. At least you are kind to wait for him to change. They say that patience is a virtue and you have that one so I admire you for having that virtue.

[AudreyA]

Can't change a man but if you will do necessary adjustments then you should help him out