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The most I've ever had is having my hands held above my head. But I think I want to get into actual bondage--being tied up for real. With actual rope n stuff. What's the best way to start? Should I start slow? I think I would like the feeling of being tied up but I don't really want to get injured or be hurt.
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Woo, your gonna have so much fun! Always take it slow when it comes to being tied up. Gotta get your skin and muscles used to the bondage materials. I like starting with really soft fabrics, maybe even ones with a bit of stretch. That way you still have a tiny bit of give. There are cool bondage tapes you can get, that sticks to itself and not your skin. WHen you're used to materials like that, after that you can graduate up to a thing, soft rope (nylon or a silk) or padded hand cuffs. The last step would be a thicker, rougher rope or metal handcuffs. It's best to leave more hard core materials like this for once you're more practiced as you can seriously bruise or tear at your skin. Although that might be what your into tho! But always be careful regardless. -
my first bondage experience was with a tie. I took it off the guy while we were going at it and he tied me up with it. extra super hot that way. if ur out with a guy and he's got a tie on, i highly recommend getting him to tie you up with his own tie. Or blindfold you. Too bad guys generally don't wear two ties at once so u cant get both, hahComment
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That bondage tape shit is great. Duct tape or electric tape sticks too hard and can irritate the skin. The bondage tape sticks only to itself. I think its made of a plastic or something? either way, it's a geinus product!Comment
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I got a few toys to go along with my ties. I have a blindfold and a crop. The crop is leather on one end and feathery on the other. Being tickled or smacked when you're arms are tied up is amazingggggg.Comment
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Thx for all the advice, guys! Gonna start putting together a little wishlist. Seriously can't wait to jump into this bondage thing!Comment
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Guess she got what she wished for, good fore her.Comment
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Do it and tell us if you enjoyed it or not lol. The only advice that I could give you is: if you're going to use cuffs, make sure that you have a bunch of key duplicates in case you lose it while having sexComment
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Also don't forget to have a safe word just in case things go badOriginally posted by uninvoked View PostComment
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Let him tease your senses with a blindfold and an ice cube or a feather. Allow him to tie hands together with paper streamers or something else that you can easily escape from. Look for handcuffs that come with padding around the wrists and use Velcro instead of keys. This simple start ups gives you and your partner time to adjust and build trust in each other so you can try more advanced things like vibrating nipple clips or metal bondage toys in your succeeding sex adventures.Comment
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It depends on who would be the ones who going to get tied up. To be safe, the both of you have to know each others safe words alreadyComment
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Don't do it with someone who hasn't tried it before and make sure that you can easily say your safe wordComment
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And if you're using cuffs make sure that you have extra keys placed in a really safe placeOriginally posted by CuddlyPac View PostComment
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