Are You Sure That This Will Work?

[TroveLove]

Do you guys believe that starting to do kink related things during sex can help when it comes to spicing up the bedroom? Or you should only try it when you've done everything that can be considered as vanilla sex?

[Lingtote]

Yes, it is possible but the both of you have to do research before doing it.

[Shane77]

[Kristen23]

I agree, Research first before doing it is the best way to make it successful. like bdsm.

[TroveLove]

Why? Are there any precautions? Lingtote

[Tastyblic]

It would be much better that you've tried everything that is possible at first, rather than jumping immediately into kinks just because you're tired of the tried and tested ones.

[Vichie]

I think it's best if you expand your roles first and try different approaches when it comes to sex.

[BabyUni]

I think that before you ask that question, you should guarantee that your partner is fine with it. Because you might be the only one who's interested in doing it and your partner is just saying yes to you in just so you don't get mad at him/her.

[inertia]

Would you accept it if your partner disagrees even f you want to do it?

[Kinkytime]

If both agree, you too should be talking about what exactly do you want to do so that there would be no problems when you do it.

[Aglowwo]

Since I have no plans of ever trying kinks and fetishes, I will just tell him that we should stop doing it for a while in order for us to miss the feeling of having sex.

[BugAlive]

Are you talking about being celibate for a month or it would be longer than that?

[fucklove]

Why? Are you not fond of doing kinky related things?

[TroveLove]

Yeah, but horny poeple always craving that sex. Aglowwo

[AirParis]

If I want to spice up my sex life then I am open to trying any kinks that are not disgusting and painful. Stuff like foods would be okay and any other kinks which are not too much or over the top compare to what we normally do.

[AirParis]

Yeah for safety purposes,lol. Jaime12

[Yuki23]

It's very disgusting right? AirParis

[Jaime12]

AirParis But of course, you should watch porn, I am sure you will learn from it. lol

[HoneyHoney72]

I still haven't tried kink related things during sex but I want to experience it. I think doing it with a person who already has a background on it would be better.

[hardandrough]

What kind of kink are you hoping to try out?

[Mor2thisIknoe]

hardandrough She should try something extraordinary and a bit overwhelming. Try cosplay and wearing costumes.

[TroveLove]

I agree with that, So both of you will not struggle to do it. HoneyHoney72

[VanVan01]

It's good to try it even if it's out of my sexual preference or might be a largely taboo to me. BDSM is not my thing but I am more open with fantasy and role-playing.

[AlignerAlive]

Fantasy and role-playing IMO are better than BDSM because it involves pain and sometimes you're partners are unpredictable on what they're going to do with you.

[merrygoround]

What kind of role-play are you hoping to try out with your boyfriend?

[VanVan01]

merrygoround since my boyfriend is a cop I will play as criminal. and he will fuck me behind while handcuf me.

[ManlyBeardMan]

If both of you really want to do something new and it's out of your comfort zone then it's better to research and read the benefits of having those kinds of kinks. You and your partner should be ready and don't be afraid to ask if it would really spice up your sex life. It really depends if you both love doing it.

[yumyum]

Have you been with someone that wanted to try something kink related with you?

[PussySlay]

Nice advice I think you should consider what your partner wants and respect his or her decision.

[TroveLove]

Can you recommend one? ManlyBeardMan

[Divina009]

Yes, It would actually improve and intensify the experience and will give you more ideas on how to spice up your sex life. There are really tons to learn about having kinky sex and I would suggest it.

[Divina009]

You're right but it is amazing you know. jerda201

[jerda201]

Divina009 Yeah I agree with that. There are a lot of people who told me that.

[Divina009]

How about you @jerda201hat was the most exciting kinky sex that you've done?

[ablasta]

The only time that I think that would work is when the two of you had ran out of things to try when it comes to sex. It also makes me wonder how often you guys do that you ran out of things to try out.

[bubblebutt6969]

Maybe they are having many rounds of sex per day that is why.

[truelove]

If you run out of things to do on your playbook then its good to try something different.

[ablasta]

imhornyimhorny I'm pretty sure that you won't try it all, you will just try things that you want, there are kinks which are over the top to explore.

[Danica505]

I'm sure that this would work for some. But for me it would take a long time before me and my guy would be talking about kinks.

[TroveLove]

Why don't you try to ask him about his kinks? and you guys will try it? Danica505

[Danica505]

Yeah I know right, btw, what services are you into? rockmybedpls

[Danica505]

I will do that if we meet again. TroveLove

[BearMsAlive]

If both of you want to boost your sex drive then its better if you go with kink related stuff in order to spice things up in the bedroom plus it's more fun.

[holleroutyo]

I agree with you but both parties should only partake if they know more about the stuff they would do.

[AudreyA]

Make sure your partner wants it or makes him want it. I also enjoy doing a man's fetish.

[Carlosa34]

I do believe that kink related sex is so much better than vanilla sex. If it's getting boring and I'll make him switch to kinky sex and I'll introduce it to him.

[AglowBeautiful]

Is that something that you immediately say to your partner or you just surprise him by asking him to do some kink related stuff on you?

[BiancaG]

I am a girl who always want to have sex, I am kinda horny so please hit me up.