Is everyone out there a total flake? Be honest!

[monster_in_the_sheets]

Ive bene part of this site for a few months now and tried to set up hookups with a bunch of different women and so far nothing has worked out. I dont know whats going on! Everything starts off fine and were chatting and things are gr8 and then nothin. I dont think its me so that leaves everyone else, lollll. Has anyone else had experiences like this?

[gym_rat_45]

You seem like an alright guy. I wouldn't hold it against the entire female race that you haven't been able to get a hook-up set up! I've had plenty of amazing dates from this site, which is why I'm here. Haven't had a problem yet. Sometimes it's not the best fit, sometimes people get busy. Shit happens, you know! Just stay positive and let it roll right off. The right lady will come along.

[john_mcadams]

Don't sweat it! I wouldn't say the site is full of flakes but ghosting is popular now. And don't say you've never ghosted anyone, haha. Stay strong, man.

[fluffyandsoft45]

You seem cute to me! If I lived in Clevend I'd get together with you—and I wouldn't ghost ya.

[monster_in_the_sheets]

Thanks guys! Appreciate da words and fluffyandsoft45, if you're ever in Cleveland hmu and i'll show u a great time

[courtney_smith]

Sometimes us girls lose interest, sometimes we change our minds. It happens! And I say this knowing that the same has happened to me in reverse. It is definitely frustrating at the time and I almost always get incredible angry even though I don't want to be. Mostly, I try not to hold it against anyone because that would just get depressing. Like there is too much else to worry about, you know? My one bit of advice would be to leave everything open in your chats. You never know when your girl will message you again out of the blu to re-connect. If you message asking what happened or tell her off (not saying that you do, of course), it could make her never want to message you again.

[sassy_lassy]

Exactly what courtney_smith said!

[courtney_smith]

Thanks, love. <3

[cece_drake]

courtney_smith knows what's up! Seriously dude, I know it sucks but hang in there. It can take a bit to get things rolling but just stay chill and positive. You seem cool so stay that way!

[monster_in_the_sheets]

thx ladies! nice to have a female perspective. And no disrespect for emplying ur all flakes or anything. i was just venting. makes snse wat ur all saying. i'll try and keep it positive in my messages! peace and much love.