Stuck

[BabyBabu]

My friend is still stuck with her ex. She still can't accept the fact that they are already over. She said that she's trying to move on but I can see that she needs to try harder. It is becoming alarming already because she cries everyday. I want to help her but I do not know how. So what do you suggest to do in order for her to move on faster?

[AliveLivery]

She needs to cut all of her connections with the guy. In that way, she won't be tempted to communicate with him again and soon, she'll be able to forget about him.

[AliveLivery]

Yeah, so her attention will go to the others. LoveShove

[AliveLivery]

If she already moved on, they can be good friends if they want to. inertia

[AliveLivery]

Maybe it's really hard for her to move on. it takes time btw. BabyBabu

[AnnieP]

She can move on faster if she will be as far away as possible from the guy. He needs to be out of her sight so that she won't be longing for him from time to time.

[BabyBabu]

@AnnieP: But the problem is she keeps thinking about him.

[AnnieP]

Yeah, and she should think that she deserves someone too. ManlyBeardMan

[AnnieP]

And she better think that there is someone better than her ex. I mean there's a lot of guys out there that will love her. HoneyHoney72

[SmgSpuffy]

She needs to go far away and start all over. At some point in my life, I tried running away from my problems then soon after, it didn't bother me at all in the end.

[SmgSpuffy]

No, what I am trying to say is you need to face it, because if you keep running away it will go after you. hardandrough

[SmgSpuffy]

Carlosa34 I know, because I know that not all problem can be solve just like that.

[SmgSpuffy]

BabyBabu Yeah, because it's not good if you just stay there. we need to step up in that situation.

[uninvoked]

Slap her real hard in order for her to get on her senses. The man is gone and would never come back to her. That is the fucking fact that she must accept.

[SmileDemiSmile]

Why does she even need to cry? I do not think that the man passed away or something like that. Wow, just for a man, she could go crazy and that's not normal already.

[Yummykorn]

Lol, I agree that she must slap her really hard. She'll get angry but then she will realize that she's acting all stupid for just one guy when she can have other guys out there.

[BabyBabu]

I already slapped her but she just cried. uninvoked

[halfSlut23]

Ask her to have one last cry over the guy and that's it. While we like to have the man stay beside us, it would already be impossible. That is the thing that she must bear on her mind - she was already dumped. There is nothing that you could do anymore.

[BigDaddy69]

In fact, he's already with someone and she's just wasting her time thinking, crying, and worrying about him but he does not feel the exact same way as she does.

[hitthesack]

Also, how can she be so stuck with that guy? I'd throw a punch on his face for putting her into this bad situation that she's in. Well, breakups are shit and we must deal with it anyway we can.

[BabeLady]

How long has she been stuck on her ex-boyfriend? If that has been years, like 10 years, then she should better stop. The man might have forgotten her already. She should move on already. There are lots of men out there.

[BuiltToLast]

10 years is a bit too much, don't you think? I think that she should try dating apps and see if she'll be able to find other men that she can give all her attention to.

[BabyBabu]

BabeLady I don't know, but I think they have a long term relationship.

[Airexadre]

Crying every day? Wait for those tears to dry up. Yes, one day, there would be no tears anymore. And, by that time, she had already moved on as time heals all wounds.

[Airexadre]

Yeah, and I think it's okay to cry. if you feel like that. It's normal though. Janbaby co

[Airexadre]

Yeah, and we usually cry if we feel so broken right? and I know that most of us experience that. VanVan01

[VanVan01]

Yeah, and that is pretty normal for me. Airexadre

[Danica505]

Acceptance is the first thing that is needed in order to move on. How could you move on when the basic thing that must be present has not been fulfilled yet?

[fucklove]

Acceptance is hard for some people so let's just understand that she truly cares for him. We do not know the whole story behind them but I hope someday that she will finally accept everything all at once or just baby steps to progress, moving on will be much easier for her.

[Marphy]

She should find someone new already. That is the fastest way to move on from being stuck on a past relationship. When you have a new one, your attention would be focused on that person and the previous one would be left behind already.

[BabyBabu]

Yeah, but you will not forget that person if you are so attached to him. so maybe it's really hard for him to do that. Marphy

[Marphy]

TeaBroadway Her friends should advise her that. because I think she needs that.

[Marphy]

Dating apps? That sounds great. rockmybedpls

[sexyme1]

Maybe it's her way of letting out all the stress that she's been dealing with too. Let her have a good long cry till she runs out of tears and she will finally get better.

[youngsterme]

Oh, I've been there too. I cried for days just for a guy that does not love me back but surprise, here I am now breaking boy's hearts for revenge lol!

[AudreyA]

It's okay if she keeps crying. That's pretty normal, I've been there.  All she needs to do is accept the fact that they are over. moving on is really hard but I know she learn.

[Airbind]

She should meet another guys that she can talk to. you know the one that will help her to move on.

[Lilliah]

and it can help her to forget her ex. Especially if she usually meets that guy, I am sure she will forget her ex. Airbind

[XtineA]

You guys should travel, and find another guy.

[jennica12]

You guys should hangout like go to the beach and go get wasted.

[iwantFWB]

it's pretty normal for me to cry, but you should tell her that she should accept it and find someone better.

[CupcakeTasty]

iwantFWB She can date another guy, there's a lot of boys out there who will like her.

[iwantFWB]

CupcakeTasty Yeah, and besides it's not the end of the world. we can find someone who is better.