Bad Dates In A Row

[VickyMae55]

How many bad dates does it take before you tell the person that it wasn't working between the two of you

[MasQue]

If by the third date there is still no connection between the two of us, then I would tell him that it would be better if we see different people already

[1xz9]

It may seem harsh but I guess that is the best thing to do.

[MasQue]

1xz9 Yeah, than to force something when you know it's not gonna work.

[AudreyA]

For me, it would only take two bad consecutive dates. If the second one was a good one for me, I would give him two more dates

[Vichie]

What if the dates alternate between a good and bad one?

[badbadboys]

Around 3-5 dates in order to get to know the person well and find out the reason why the previous dates were bad ones

[AnnieP]

What are you going to do if the girl thinks that things are getting serious between the two of you during those dates?

[smoker]

I think twice is enough to know if it won't work or the other way around.

[HoneyConey]

I think you need to give him one more chance.

[smartass]

Two dates would be the max, but I will go out with him for a third date and tell him that it won't work for us

[Amazeac]

smartass why not just tell him right after the second one? That's a bit like overstaying your welcome already

[smartass]

hitthesack Yes, that if the first and second date did not work out.

[smartass]

Amazeac Well, that has nothing to do with you.

[AnneCubix]

Never encounter a bad date before and they are all given a second chance only.

[SmileDemiSmile]

I'm guessing that you never had a bad first date that's why you've given them a second date with you?

[TastyLove]

SmileDemiSmile She just said that she never encountered a bad date before.

[Yummykorn]

Or you just put the bar too low that's why you haven't encountered any bad date yet?

[Carlosa34]

I would go and have a second date with him. And if in the middle of the second date, I feel that it's still a bad one, I would tell him that it won't work for the both of us at the end of the date

[XtineA]

How many times did that happened already?

[yumyum]

It would be two for me cause I can still tolerate the first one.

[honesty101]

So when was the last time you've been in a date?

[yumyum]

honesty101 To answer your question, that would be last month.

[Danica505]

What I'm after is consistency so it would be four or five dates. If we had a three good dates by the fourth date, then I would like to take things to the next level

[newromance]

I'm guessing why you mentioned a fifth date is when the good and bad dates are two apiece?

[KellyEM]

So it's a race to three then? The first one that reaches three would be your decision

[PieFlavor]

If the second date turns to be bad, I think that is enough to call it quits.

[Annalyn]

And what if it was a good one? Are you going to give him another chance?

[Live2Hunt]

Annalyn is right. It's tied up at 1-1. Will it really be conclusive?

[rockmybedpls]

Three dates and he needs to make sure that at least two of them are good ones for me

[holleroutyo]

So the second and third one should be good ones in order for things hit the next level

[Lookingforlovin]

The first impression is important to me so it will only take one date to know if it was a bad date or not.

[Yummykorn]

So you would ghost him immediately if it was a bad date?

[Live2Hunt]

Maybe you're that good, huh?

[BearMsAlive]

If it's still a bad one by the second date, I would say to him that this will not work

[BabeLady]

And what would happen if the second was way better that you expected it to be?

[Informerem]

What if the guy is just a slow starter?

[HoneyConey]

Yeah. Second chances are supposed to be for redemption

[honesty101]

Having a 3rd date is the safest way to find out. Note: only tolerate if you really like something about him/her.

[PussySlay]

Correct, give the person a chance before giving your decision.