I think I may be into girls, what should i do?

[sweet_talking_woman]

I've always dated guys and never really thought about women. It's always been fine and the sex has been fine. Like totally good enough, you know? Anyway, I saw some FF porn for the first time a couple of weeks ago because the current guy I'm hooking up with thought it would be hot. And it was SUPER hot. Except, now I can't stop thinking about the women I saw. And their bodies. Like it's turning me on just thinking about it right now. Could I just think it's hot? Could I be gay? Just into girls too? I grew up in a fairly old fashioned household so these things never occured to me when I was younger. Help!

[paige_turner]

Hey lady! No stress, no stress. It can be overwhelming feeling new feelings like that. I sort of always -knew- I was gay, but I've had partners who just never realized because it wasn't a part of their world at all and then they had a similar awakening, so to speak. The best thing you can do is continue to explore and experiment with an open mind. Try some dates first and see how they go!

[big_juicy_red]

Girl, get out there and experiment! You won't know what you love and who until you experience it. That's the problem growing up sheltered sometimes—it's not that you don't like it, it's just that you don't know!

[darling_bee]

I'm bi and it took me a long time to realize it. Mostly because there's such a stigma for being "bi." That it's just a phase or for slutty girls who just like it all or whatever. But I'm attracted to both men and women! And I've enjoyed hookups and relationships with both! When I was younger I only dated guys. And then I started feeling attracted to women. It was sort of by accident like you and it took me a while to decide to do anything about it. I decided to try out "being" a lesbian and then I realied that I still liked guys. So I date both! There are some lesbians who don't think bisexuals count or that they aren't pure or whatever, but dont listen to that. If you're attracted to both then you're attracted to both!

[burymealive34]

Everyone here has already given good advice but I wanna say that it's okay to be confused and wonder who you are and what you like. Don't be ashamed or scared of that! Just keep exploring and asking questions about yourself. Being your true self is what matters the most. <3 <3 <3

[yumyum]

I would say just Go out there and explore. Don't rush into anything, personally i dont see anything wrong with that so you go girl.

[hardandrough]

You should at least try it in order to really know if you're into girls or not