The Third Party

[Danica505]

I was wondering if any of you here have experienced being the third party in a relationship? If yes, did you know beforehand that you're just the party or you were confronted by the main partner?

[StrongAsZeus]

I'm waiting for the answers of the snakes here just like what my best friend did to me.

[bemine]

I think he's been cheated countless time since he really sounds so bitter.

[StrongAsZeus]

AudreyA A countless of times, I guess.

[StrongAsZeus]

bemine Being cheated by your wife and your best friend was just unacceptable.

[BigDaddy69]

Well, I've been in that situation before. I thought the girl I was with is single, only to find out that she is already in a relationship with another guy.

[XperiencedVirgin]

That's just sad. Hope you will not be in that situation again.

[BigDaddy69]

XperiencedVirgin I hope so.

[SimplyAlisha]

Haven't tried being the third party in a relationship because I'm really cautious when choosing a partner.

[Mor2thisIknoe]

Do you do background checks on them? lol

[J3nnyTalia]

Mor2thisIknoe I guess she does, maybe she always hire a private detective to investigate them. lol

[SimplyAlisha]

Mor2thisIknoe That's right. I do a background check first(name,age,address,phone number,email). lol

[1xz9]

No, because I find men who are in a relationship a turn-off.

[newromance]

We're the same, I literally find men who are in a relationship to be unattractive.

[Informerem]

But you'll never know if the one that you're dating (if you have one) now is in a relationship or worst married.

[CupcakeTasty]

Yeah, I was a third party without my knowledge. When I discovered about that, I cut our relationship and our communication altogether.

[Aglowwo]

I commend you from what you did. Being a third party was never worth it.

[VickyMae55]

It was good that you did that before the wife discovered it.

[SmgSpuffy]

Never, I experience being cheated before and it did hurt me so much so whenever someone is courting me, I always make sure that he is single.

[HugKenji]

How will you make sure that he is single?

[BabyUni]

HugKenji If he is being secretive, that means that he is hiding something. That is a red flag already, it is either he's married or in a relationship, that's the time you'll know he's not single.

[SmileDemiSmile]

I've been in one before. The wife was okay with it since she's not able to satisfy her husband sexually already

[SmileDemiSmile]

MasQue We've talked about it personally.

[SmileDemiSmile]

honesty101 I am currently single but I have a current suitor.

[SmileDemiSmile]

Annalyn I guess she really loves him because I've seen through her eyes while we were talking.

[KellyEM]

I've been the other woman in a relationship before. Only found out that he was married when the wife asked me how much would it cost her in order for me to leave her husband

[XtineA]

How much was she offering you and did you took her offer?

[CuddlyPac]

Well, it was not your fault because you did not know that he was married. He was such a jerk for doing that to you.

[KellyEM]

imhornyimhorny True that, sweetie. I really fucked up big time.

[AnneCubix]

Never been the third party, but I was cheated by a partner before

[MoiraMcTagarrt]

How many times did a guy cheat on you?

[hitthesack]

Someone like doesn't deserve to be treated that way honey

[CupcakeTea]

I doubt that, who would cheat on a beautiful woman like you?

[HoneyConey]

I did, and to be honest, it is not a happy relationship because I was always being bugged by my conscience.

[yumyum]

I hope that you acted based on your conscience and broke up with him.

[Carlosa34]

Almost became one. Luckily a friend of mine caught him out with his wife. Decided to end things with him the next time I've met him

[AirFeline]

That was a good decision that you've made, at least you prevented yourself from being called a homewrecker.

[Carlosa34]

AirFeline Yes, sweetie, I was really lucky that my friend found out.